nikah without marriage license
can anyone advise as i really require help with my problem. bfrnd, gfnd? Can someone please confirm if this is valid? but, iam not sure about so please tell me what should i do? My knowledge says, " satisfying each other and fulfilling the need for time-pass will comparatively be okay", hi, i want to know that my boyfriend is from shia mazhab and i am from sunni andy parents are not accepting our relation because he is from shia mazhab, is nikah jaiz between sunni girl and shia boy. My only comment to you at this time is that you should not be involved with a married woman. if parents take our sharai- right of marrying by choice then they are wrong instead of us who desperately want to marry. For the recital of Nikah the declaration shall suffice, it is not compulsory to have witnesses present. as far as I have heard, one can have Allah as a witness if no human witness is available or ready to accept ur relationship. Allah's Messenger (saws) said, "A woman may not give another woman in marriage, nor may she give herself in marriage; for the immoral woman is the one who gives herself in marriage. the thing is that we know it that parents wont agree on this! You must request a time slot at least one week in advance for your request to be processed. meri czn ko zinnah say bachaiye. Is there a way to register it without having issues in family. like, can it be my cousins? Not just anyone can act as one because her family wants to reject you. I suggest you all ask your local scholar pertaining to your fiqh whether nikah is valid or not. One of you has answered this but it seems like people have ignored the answer. This situation is exactly the type in which one needs to practice 'sabr/patience'. You still need witnesses, so how would they be available? You must be represented by your wali for your nikah to be valid. Dowry (mahr) to be paid by the groom to the bride. Be sure to read the database section called The records, to find out what records . she did not knew those witnesses. If you have done nothing haram then why can't you get married properly? lucky, are you Muslim? Seems like everyone wants to do nikaah now a days in order to have legal sex, really is that what nikah all about ? As for the culture of Bf and Gf, i am not sure on this but, how can you get into a halal relationship (Nikah) when its initiation has been a haram one? They were unaware of the legal requirements. Just the nikah, then a simple dinner with a small group of family members. Asalamialkum wrwb Forget about this match, brother. nikah without witnesses randers marriage irregular but not void zobia, wa alaykum as-salam. It is permissible to delay the consummation of marriage (rukhsati or wedding) for a later and more convenient date with no specific time limit as long as they both mutually agree on it until the circumstances are right for them. This my wife knows and is against that. I want again proper nikah with papers and parents permission. wassalamu alaikum. Asslamualykum I want to know I'm staying with my lady since 8 years we got 3 children as far as ava family's are agree is it anything wrong in that. The question is whether to make the nikah under strained circumstances where parents have no right to refuse consent but to inform them after that. Couple. To learn more about the Nikah tradition and how to incorporate it into your own modern-day celebration, we spoke with Imam Steve Mustafa Elturk, president of the Islamic Organization of North America (IONA) in Warren, Michigan, on the fundamentals to know. All guests will be guided to the musallah. Imam Elturk explains that the Wali gets consent from the bride and does not give her away without her permission. Unchained At Last recently released a study that found that Citizenship and Immigration Services approved 8,868 petitions involving minors for spousal or fianc entry into the U.S. from 2007 to 2017. can i marry with my gf secretly bcoz she was dosnt want any one know about us. I have been told by some imams this is not valid but some imams say it is valid. Glossary. For farther destinations please contact the office to get an estimate for the service. Youll get a discount if you book both our Imam and our wedding venue! both spouses should tell parents that they love each other and they want to get engaged ONLY. You must get married properly. If you are not legally married in Islam then you are mahrem for each other and any intimacy between you is haram. Bring the following documents on the day of the nikah: Marriage license from the County Clerk's office Valid photo IDs of both bride and groom DarusSalam will fill out the marriage license and return it to the County Clerk via mail. For registration of marriages under this Ordinance, the Union Council shall grant licenses to one or more persons, to be called Nikah Registrars, but in no case shall more than one Nikah Registrar be licensed for any one Ward. Wael I read all the answers given before but I need answer just according to my case please help mee. There are no exceptions to this, and no scholar has given a fatwa contrary to this. Requesting a time slot does not confirm your booking. It is haram to have any physical contact with him whatsoever. In this case, she would NOT need her mom's permission to marry. i want to know that who exactly can be our witness? for eg. brother our partens agreed to get us married after 2 years but my wifes mother sister and other knows that we are married but as a boy my parrnts don.t know yet. Unfortunately, they neglected to get a marriage license and did not register the marriage in Ontario. Please be sure to acquire the Marriage License form the city hall of the municipality you reside in. During the time between the proposal and the acceptance, the couple can meet as many times as they like to get to know each other, as long as the meeting takes place in public or within close proximity of a chaperone. Thanks.. May Allah guide us all on the right path and May ALLAH Almighty forgive our sins. coming to your second point that nikkah should be openly announced its true this point is appreciated because of negative consequences but does not make marriage invalid. Marriage in Islam has certain conditions, including mutual consent (that's the only one you fulfilled), payment of mahr, presence of witnesses, presence of the bride's wali, and publicization of the marriage with a waleemah. Aslam o alikum Log in, Join our e-mail list for regular site news and updates, All Rights Reserved for Islam Q&A 1997-2023. Marriage Contract Conditions You should announce the marriage , and inform your neighbors and relatives of it, so that legitimate marriage will be made distinct from illicit relationships. you guys are screwed up. If you approach court marriage then you don't need a marriage license and you'll be legally married. Please dont judge my lesbian relationship. I have read various views on the authority of the wali who in many cases is the father. I don't really understand your question. Also no one knows about it so he can walk away after a while as he sees fit a few years or so and no one knows. but i take care of her i give what she asks from me we had one of my frnd and one of her frnd as a witness and than i told her will you marry me by the name Allah 3 times she said yes. Were talking about that rare legislation that harms no one except child rapists it costs nothing. she has never seen nikah nama and never did signature. Even i want to know about nikah with non muslim is halal or not. the matter is this that in a university a girl and boy loved each other. Aziz, what you have done is NOT a valid nikah and you are not married. I had secret nikkah nearly two years ago. Following that, the couple and the two male witnesses are required to sign the contract, which can be provided by the imam or the couple. It is mentioned that if a male and female are mature enough they can consume marriage and that is valid Your marriage sounds like it is invalid. anam, the bride must be represented by her wali, otherwise there is no nikah. Plz plz advice me is our nikkah is valid ? Anyone considering nikkah without legal documentation according to their local government should be extremely cautious, especially if they are not in an Islamic country. they assume witness to Allah to avoid unwanted happenings, now they are getting merried in real. There is no secret marriage in Islam. L'enregistrement des naissances, des mariages et des dcs relve de la juridiction provinciale et territoriale. If you have asked several Imams already then asking us is superfluous. It can then be published and answered in turn, inshaAllah.]. And if one finds themself having to do nikah without witnesses, then there is more than likely something hugely immoral about the whole thing. Also, confirm whether he will bring a marriage contract or if you plan to provide him with one. I am only quoting what I hve heard I do not have any refrence from Hadees or Quran for this. In fact, Allah tells us in the Quran to follow a bad deed with a good one. There is NO valid nikkah without witnesses. Agree on witnesses (2 minimum , 1 from each side is recommended). Then when your kids are old enough, tell them what you did and why. Nevertheless, marrying in secret is unIslamic. There is a husband and wife. A formal, binding contract - verbal or on paper [1] - is considered integral to a religiously valid Islamic marriage, and outlines the rights and responsibilities of the groom and bride. How can you make a haraam situation halaal by doing something haraam? Questions cannot be asked through this form, the presence of the womans wali (guardian). What is the respect of women in islam I give her Dawat to become muslim Please note the Imam will not perform any Nikah without a valid marriage license which must be present at the time of the Nikah ceremony . (You will have to provide necessary identification and pay a fee for the application). I want to ask question http://darululoom-deoband.com/english/books/nikah.htm#. Men are predatory and know what other men think like. True sunnah method is asking someone who is qualified to answer the question. Marriage by its very nature is NOT discreet. Sam, an Imam or Qadi is not strictly required, but the presence of a wali is definitely required for a woman, especially if she is a virgin. Related. The husband admits the paternity of the children from this marriage. witnesses are to keep that noticed so that none of the two can back off this relationship and make complications in future. Hi I wanted to ask if this so called secret nikah valid if the girl and boy are engaged to each other and their families accepted it and plan to do there marriage after few years? Sister Sara shared with us the following: As far as I know, one of the conditions of a valid marriage is that it must be done openly. Policy Regarding travel of Imam off-site: Please note that the Imam is volunteering his own . i am in a similar situation and am thinking the same. The Pew Research Center says asking for judicial consent or presenting parents permission are ways to bypass the minimum age to marry in many states. plz plz plz khuda k waastay help karain or detailed answer day dainnn. One simple question for you - ask your heart honestly: How would you feel if a man wanted such a relationship with your sister? There's no secret marriage, when you marry a girl or she did to you , it has to be admitted in public. A Mahram is required from the girl's side. so will it be accepted as nikah????????? How does nikkah work if both do not have a wali? That's what Allah want you to do. All booking time slots are now limited to one hour. There is no such thing as secret or double Nikkah in Islam. ( Sunan Abu Dawood ), There is no marriage except with a guardian. (Tirmidhi), Narrated byAbu Hurayrah Same way you would go to a GP to ask a medical question about your health when you have a serious illness. If doing Nikah can prevent worse sins than its better to do it any way. 5. Allah (SWT) said: "And do not marry your womenfolk to disbelieving men until they believe. Missh, I would tell you to log in and write your question as a separate post, but I can tell you right now that we cannot answer your question. Music will also depend on where the Nikah is held: Its uncommon to have music at a Nikah, especially if it's held at the mosque. Her goals stem from personal experience, as she never got to experience childhood. The following conditions apply here: Both parties accept Nikah. if it is just fornication then examin your heart repent and leave each other! . Once both people decide they want to move forward and make it official, the Nikah ceremony can take place. In modern times, the marriage contract is signed in the presence of an Islamic judge, imam, or trusted community elder who is familiar with Islamic law. Any suggestions would be appreciated! I think it was about 150 Assembly members and it took me days, but I did it. 3. Secret marriages are not advised. There is no such thing as recognizing each other by heart as husband and wife. Make your nikah as soon as possible. Allah will not suffice as "the witness" if two human beings cannot be present, and that's probably why you won't find any hadith/ayats supporting the view you've heard. Nikah Misyar though contractually permissible ignores the broader meaning of mithaqan ghalizah. I am 23 yrs old and into the final year of mys studies.I am in a long distance relation with a girl whom i love is 21 years old and we have deep feeling and high respect for each other. Ive been surviving for the past 31 years, she said. She was Hindu and her husband divorce her and took her 7 y old . You still need witnesses for Nikkah Misyar. 4. what happens if your husband has got hold of documents, and is not registering it with nadra for a long time. (Off-site at separate location) $100 for paying-members of Masjid Ikhlas, $150 for non-paying members. Her father applied to legalize the marriage and for an American spousal visa so that Tariq could become a U.S. citizen. The Islamic Society of Cumberland provides Nikah (marriage) services. If the event is not at the mosque, make sure the imam or the officiant can be at the ceremony for the wedding. She need wali's permission. I have read of many women being put in very difficult and unhappy situations because of it. Usually -in Morocco- the two witnesses do write down the 'aqd an-Nikah so they write down all the conditions made by the two parties and the amount of the mahr. The early scholars of Islam reported that it was a great blessing to conduct the marriage ceremony inside the mosque. Slam.i had done nikah withoiut witneses..someone told my husband that it is valid whn we do nikah in the witness of Allah..we made Allah as a wiutness coz iur family doesnot know about our relationship..n i dont want to do zinna..we r in relationship for last one year-..bt then i came to know tht it is not valid? 1.her parents know she is married plz ..? though I am searching for it. Equality Among Wives. He has changed to align with Islam but my father doesnt trust him, My friends are all married but I cant even finish school. Ask for a marriage license. Nothing is perfect in this life, and sometimes were faced with issues at home that we cannot resolve without help from people of wisdom. Both my beloved sisters be happy because Allah swt loves you thats why His made you aware of your actions otherwise He could have let you go astry but it is only out of His mercy Alhamdulillah!!! * Fatawa Qadhi Khan Volume 1 page 153,Kitab al Nikah. So yes, they are free to marry anyone else. altaf, there is no secret marriage or marriage without witnesses in Islam. Can he have his mates/younger brother as a witness? 3. ?what should i do know?what is its kafaraa?? He has officiated hundreds of Nikahs for Muslim couples, is very active in the Muslim community, and is seen as a leader and advisor. You must request a time slot at least one week in advance for your request to be processed. An Islamic marriage contract is considered an integral part of an Islamic marriage, and outlines the rights and responsibilities of the groom and bride or other parties involved in marriage proceedings under Sharia. We tried to convince our parents for Nikah, but all those society things came between. * Neel al Autar Volume 6 page 144 Bab Shahdath fi Nikah We read in Hidaya: Amin says her past has taught her resiliency and how to survive. In order for a marriage to be valid , there must be agreement from both parties, and the presence of the womans wali (guardian) and two Muslim witnesses of good character, and there should be no impediments in the case of either partner. However, without the facts it is difficult for anyone to be sure. i have a very simple and straightforward question.. A proper nikah in Islam requires a wali for the bride, witnesses, payment of mahr, and publicization of the marriage. As with any marriage, someone has to propose for the Nikah process to start. most men divorce after they get bored with their wives. here i advise the sister latifa123 that she should be 100% sure that her boyfriend is really honest and good person . if a boy and girl both desperately love each other but parents are not agreeing at all, infact the girl's father tries to forcefully marry her to another man who she does not consent to and in these conditions if the girl and boy run away and do court marriage then is it not right.? its true !! Mr.. Lekin if they force u for nikah tu wo invalid b hai n gunah b on behalf of parents awin na islam ko or khencho. plzzz help sirr. You need witnesses as well as a Wali for her. Even though almost half of all women in South Asia aged 20-24 reported being married before the age of 18, the rates of child marriage are currently decreasing in the region. Part of being in love with someone is having to wait, and if he/she cares about you they'll wait. Judicial witness is the paper which you sign, social and ethical witnesses are those two human beings. After separation, the husband applied to the court for relief available to him under Ontario Family Law, including equalization of net family property and reimbursement of an what he argued was overpayment of support paid to the wife. Jehangir, read the responses already given. My parents do not know. A man is RESPONSIBLE for you - a secret nikah, is NOT valid, and is no different than the mutaa ect being practiced in the name of Islam in Egypt etc. Can i marry a women more older then me. We provide our services for the Processing and Registration of the Nikah Certificates. trying to make a haaram situation halaal? Or else He would of asked for one more witness. saima, your friend's nikah is invalid. The essential (sic) presence of the wali and witnesses are fiqh developments long after the era of the a'immah al mujtahidin, for sundry reasons. Can you suggerst me how to confirm. Requirements for Nikah. The signing of the contract is what makes the marriage legal according to civil and religious law. Assalam.u.alaikum i want to merry with my girl.friend and she is marride.she want tallak from her husband but he did not give her.know she want to left her home and merry with me.how she get tallaq from court and through legal way?plz tel me. (Thanks to the hard work of my fellow Editors). Before you contact the Masjid or Imam for marriage/nikah, please follow the procedures below. I feel Islam as a simple religion. But I see every where that there is no nikkah without witness, I only spend 10 days in Nepal Now she is very happy over there she is waiting What are the requirements of the officiant if I want the marriage to be filed with the County Recorder's office? Yes. Cuomo signed legislation in New York in 2017 that raised the age of consent to marry from 14 to 18, but 17-year-olds could be married with parental and judicial consent. I have done nikah with my boyfriend without parents permission. It is hard and expensive to go to the nearest Islamic center here or to the embassy to write the marriage certificate. My parents had no issues with us getting married and nor did his parents but we didn't wait and I just want to do right and face up to consequences. Infact wali's ( father ) permission is obligatory without which you cannot get married. Mutah is haram. The Marriage Certificate Application obtained with the Marriage License must be brought to the Imam couple days in advance of the Nikah day. Both spouses were eligible to be married when they took part in the religious ceremony, the marriage had been undertaken in good faith. thank you. she is my class mate! The Prophet (s) married Khadijah (r) who was 40 years of age and He (s) was only 25. The Womens Refuge Commission says South Asian families force their daughters into child marriage as it is perceived to be the best means to provide economic and physical security. We all talk of following Quran and sunnah, yet from all the comments I have seen, not a single person has said the correct thing or used hikmah to answer the question in the way it should. I Completely agree, Parents will always think best for their children, Sabr (Patience) is key and to be patient you are pleasing god as your relying on him of regardless effort convincing 2nd party, Inshallah god will help you through these hard times as he has done every time, Be patient and keep faith in god. He only becomes halal for you once you have had your nikah. She is talking on phone with me as well I before our parents permissions. your state wants a paper witness only. And we don't find any muslim person over there I read nikkah my self and offer For a marriage to be valid, you need your wali's ( father ) permission, dowry, 2 witnesses. Me n my gf living in different countries once on telephone I said her i m putting my hands on holy Quran and keeping Almighty Allah in front I accept u as my wife n i did put my hands on holy Qur'an she replied me the same and said I also accept u as my husband - my question is that is such nikaah counted in Allah's eye does it valued in Islam I have already told my parents about it but her parents have not accepted that n doing her marriage with someone else. In so doing, the nikah will be valid. Bcoz both parents were ready for arrange mariage and month was also decided for marriage but nikha done just for safe side as she was afraid of her father might deny for this relation due to any reason in future so nikha done 3month before decided marriagebut her parents were not present although his parents per present and Nikha Khaw and Mehar also decided and asked by her. Wa alaykum as-salam. Do not make a joke out of the deen. If your brother is your closest living male relative, then he would be your wali, but if your father is alive then your father is your wali (unless he has given up that right for some reason). Do not liken yourself to non-believers. The requirements to have a Nikah done through the Masjid are as follows: Marriage License Document. This whole scenario does not take account of parents rights. In this day and age parents can't kill you or force you back home. Abdullah ibn Umar, Abdullah ibn Zubayr, Abdur Rehman bin Mahdi and Uthman have said that it is not obligatory to have witnesses at a Nikah. please note that the Imam will not perform any Nikah without a valid marriage license Step 2. What feels like a fix is a trick of shaytaan to put you in despair! Part of the point of nikah is to make a public statement that the man and woman are now halal for each other. Recording and documenting the marriage are done only to protect peoples rights and to avoid disputes. Before you contact the Masjid or Imam for marriage/nikah, please follow the procedures below. We bothe are single. When I found out about it, I was laying on a couch and I just started crying tears of happiness, she said. Let me tell you the all story. Yeah that's right and actually thats what we are worried for! 3 I give her my name and now whole her Hindu family know we both are married They lived together as a married couple until 2010 when they decided to separate. And the reason why this is, because none of the people here are scholars or have ijazah to give comments or make an islamic judgement. 1. Depending on your family and culture, the type of food may vary. the marriage took place without the knowledge of the walis of both parties. Please register and submit your question as a separate post and we will answer you in turn, Insha'Allah. And You know, I know not. Naila Amin at 15; she was a child bride at 13 in Pakistan. (Remainder of question has been removed. my situation is very different Its not right. Please be sure to acquire the Marriage License form the city hall of the municipality you reside in. Muhammad Waseem The couple have made it clear that they want to marry as they do no want to prolong their relationship outside nikah and they have even observed istikharah to seek guidance from Allah as to whether the other is the appropriate person to take as a life partner.
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